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5 Truths About Sleeping With Your Partner In A Long-Term Relationship

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In your teenage, pre-adulthood years when you weren’t getting any or a lot of sex, you would probably have thought about adults and married people and got the impression that they must be getting so much sex, doing it without boundaries and catching orgasm after orgasm on a daily basis.

But of course, as you may have noticed, as you grew older and wiser, sex does not work that way. Even in the honeymoon phase of a relationship/marriage, sex is not that rampant. And it gets even more toned-down than that once the relationship enters into auto-pilot mode.

Especially when it’s been a while since you and your partner have been together, here are things you can expect to experience in your sex life

1. Quantity down, quality up

Sex typically moves from three times in a day to a more reasonable pace and frequency over time. It also becomes less of an awkward experience to something more intimately familiar over time.

In general, you’ll have sex less often the longer you’re together, which is fine as long as you’re both still doing the things that drive your partner crazy—and learning new ones.

The aim is to steadily get the quality up, even if the quantity reduces or not as the relationship progresses. Just make it as lit as you can.

2. You may need to schedule to get

This is because it is normal for partners to become really busy and get their hands in a whole lot of other stuff that takes sex to the bottom of their priority list.

As long as you’re understanding and not too rigid about it, it’s not a terrible way to go.

3. Absence can create the needed sparks

After a while, sparks will no longer be easy to come by. The newness of the whole thing will no longer be there and creating fireworks will need to become an intentional thing as opposed to how naturally it came at the beginning of the relationship.

3. Absence can create the needed sparks

After a while, sparks will no longer be easy to come by. The newness of the whole thing will no longer be there and creating fireworks will need to become an intentional thing as opposed to how naturally it came at the beginning of the relationship.

So it is necessary to give yourselves a chance to miss each other. Being attached at the hip is not always good for your relationship, as counterintuitive as it seems. Being away on a business trip or on a solo holiday means you will come back bursting with a need for your partner that might have not been there if they were sleeping by you on all the nights they were on that holiday for.

4. You need adventure!

So it is major key that you actively, compulsively seek it! Without experimentation and trying out new things, monotony sets in and that is not what you want in your sex life even if you are doing it with someone familiar forever.

Move away from vanilla and throw in a dash of chocolate every now and then. Life is too short to no have variety. So say no to boring, one-way-street sex!

5. And on special occasions, there might even be explosions.

Birthdays, holidays, anniversaries… these special events that give you the opportunity to kiss it better and do it differently.

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Meet #MyStoryClothing: Fast Rising Ghanaian Celebrity Bespoke Fashion Designer

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A lot of people these days put thread and needle to fabric to make clothes, but it takes more than just fabric and sewing equipment to make garments that register a signature.

My Story Clothing, an Accra-based fashion line is becoming a fast-growing trademark n exquisite men’s couture.

A men’s fashion brand established in 2016 by Nii Amatey Codjoe and Sergio Tackie, My Story clothing, is more than just a fashion brand but a lifestyle. The fashion house has been able to tap into some major and well-respected brands that have patronized his services. Notable among them are Rocky Dawuni, Lexis Bill, Sammy Forson, Elorm Beenie, Brainy Beatz, just to name a few.

In the own words of the CEO, Nii Amatey Codjoe, “our brands highlights the wearer’s individual style in their own unique way. It defines the lifestyle of today’s hip and vibrant society. My Story has always strived to provide the most diverse range of men’s designer clothes possible, whilst still maintaining a high standard of service to our clients”.

His bespoke collections resonate fashionable designs, elegance, royalty, and class. A combination that gives customers excitement and complete confidence in their apparel.

MyStory Clothing is a fast-rising fashion company anyone can trust, especially on delivery and beating timelines. Quality is the hallmark and the needed attention is so visible with the details of costumes in terms of branding and designs.

MyStory Clothing does delivery WORLDWIDE!

Kindly connect with MyStory Clothing on these platforms:

Instagram: @MyStory.gh

Facebook: My Story Clothing

Contact: +233500002523

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Endowed Model, Sanchi Flaunts Massive Cleavage In Raunchy New PHOTO

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Endowed Tanzanian model, Sanchi took to Instagram to put her massive cleavage on display in this new raunchy photo she shared to her page.

Endowed?model, Sanchi flaunts massive cleavage in raunchy new photo.

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Study Says Women Who Date Younger Men Have More Satisfying Relationships

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According to a study conducted by sex psychologist, Dr Justin Lehmiller, women who date younger men have more satisfying relationships.

Dr Lehmiller surveyed 200 heterosexual women in relationships about their relationships, including the age of their partners, and how satisfied they were.

The results revealed that women who were more than 10 years older than their partners were the most satisfied with, and committed to, their relationships than both women who were younger than their partners, and women whose partners were close in age.

Dr Lehmiller explained: “Why were the older women happier with their relationships? I can’t say with certainty based on my data, but it may be because when the woman is older, it might shift the power dynamic toward greater equality.

“We know from a lot of research that greater equality in a relationship tends to make couples happier, so perhaps it’s the case that this arrangement is just more equitable.”

Dr Lehmiller also suggests that relationships in which the woman is older than the man may work as they put the woman in a more dominant position.

He added: “We know that a lot of men are into the idea of submitting to a dominant, powerful woman—and they tend to see older women as having those characteristics.

“So maybe it’s a feeling of empowerment that ultimately underlies older women’s greater feelings of satisfaction—and perhaps that empowerment allows women to get more of what they want, sexually and otherwise.”

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