Star of the moment Wendy Shay has revealed that she really loves Kuami Eugene.

The Uber Driver hitmaker made this revelation in an exclusive interview recently in Accra.

Wendy Shay was speaking on recent news reports about being caught with Kuami Eugene in a hotel having an affair.

According to her, Kuami Eugene was more than a brother to her, while claiming that she had never heard the reports about them sleeping in a hotel.

Then asked plainly if she loves the Angela hitmaker in real life, Wendy Shay paused for a brief moment and responded “Yes, I love Kuami Eugene”, with a satisfactory smile on her face.

When asked again if she would take a bullet for him, meaning she loved him to the extent that she could die for him, Wendy Shay responded with a big yes, followed by Shatta Wale’s Bullet Proof.

She sang that she would take a bullet for Kuami Eugene, not one, not two.

Her latest confession is sure to put the many rumors going on about them to rest.

The two popular musicians were in the news recently when Kuami Eugene denied ever sleeping with her.

According to him, he owned a house, therefore, it would not be true that he would take a lady or Wendy Shay to sleep within a hotel.

The 21-year-old Kuami Eugene had earlier said that Wendy Shay, 23, was just like a sister to him, saying that there was nothing going on between them.

He said he knew Wendy Shay through Bullet before she was even signed on to RuffTown Records.

They were also in the news following reports of them sharing warm hugs and kisses at her surprise birthday party.

A couple has shocked Twitter users after they revealed they are in a relationship even though they are first cousins and they want to put an end to the stigma surrounding incest (read here).

The couple tweeted several photos of themselves, including one of them kissing and another where they were smoking blunt, and they revealed they’ve been in love since they were kids but had to hide their relationship because their mothers are blood sisters.

Sharing a photo taken with her cousin, @Lilmarche tweeted:

I remember growing up, we had to hide our love from our family. Sleepovers was too lit ? now we grown and we don’t gotta hide. Blood can’t make us any closer but I’m so glad I fell in love with my cousin ????‍???

In another tweet, she wrote:

Can we change the stigma of incest?

A third tweet reads:

I shouldn’t be limited to who I love because we’re related.

She adds:

I’m just happy & in love ??‍?? just so happen to be my cousin. What’s the deal?

When asked how they are related, she replied:

We’re first cousins. Our moms are sisters.

The lady added that she and her cousin are sexually active. When followers expressed concern that their kids will be inbred and will likely have genetic maladies, she said she doesn’t care because she is on birth control.

What’s shocking in all of these is that a number of Twitter users declared support for their love and confessed they are also having sexual relationships with their cousins.

A great number of Twitter users called the couple out for their actions. But the young lady was unbothered and replied to every critic with strong words of her own.

Below are tweets from @Lilmarche and some reactions from Twitter users.

A pregnancy can either be a messenger of innumerable happiness or a messenger of enormous stress. Even though there are various processes to avoid pregnancy and protect yourself, then also many such cases are recorded where the preventive measures fail to protect from unwanted pregnancy. But then there are birth control pills which will help you avoid pregnancy within the 48 to 72 hours of last sexual intercourse.

There are also some situations where your body cannot support a healthy development of the fetus. In such situations you need to worry about how you can stop pregnancy after 1 month. After all this, even if the pills couldn’t stop you from getting pregnant, then the only thing you are left with is abortion. Abortion is one such thing which is very personal and a big tough decision to make.

Terminating the pregnancy or ending the pregnancy before the fetus becomes live is known as abortion. Taking a decision for abortion is not easy and moreover 1 month after pregnancy as it may affect the health of the woman.

There multiple things to be taken care of before making a decision regarding abortion. Abortion not only affects the woman physically but also mentally and emotionally. In the long run it may cause further complications if the woman is willing to get pregnant. In such conditions you need to consult to your doctor, go to a counselor or any person who is trustworthy enough in your family.

But if you are not willing to get an abortion then here are some alternative measures which can help you. We have discussed and described few alternative methods which will help you terminate the pregnancy after one month. Depending on the health of the woman as well as age and health of the fetus under utmost concern, some methods are given below.

Abortion with natural ingredients available within a month

Leaving all the above mentioned remedies,  consuming certain food items can also lead to abortion naturally. However,  these food items are not completely reliable therefore it is advisable to visit a doctor if you don’t see any bleeding upon using them.

Papaya

Papaya contains phytochemicals which are abortifacient in nature. Papaya inhibits the high amount of progesterone hormonal activities and contains oxytocin and prostaglandins. Oxytocins and prostaglandins are helpful in stimulating contractions. This is why it is advised by doctors to not to consume papaya during pregnancy.

Pineapple

Pineapples are rich in proteolytic  enzymes which are commonly known as bromelain. Bromelain are known to soften the cervix. This property of pineapple might lead to natural abortion.

Cinnamon

Consuming raw cinnamon directly or cinnamon supplements is advised to ease the delivery process as it helps in stimulating the uterus. However, if cinnamon is consumed by an excessive amount within a month of having intercourse,  it can cause abortion naturally.

Sesame seeds

Consuming sesame seeds regularly within a month of intercourse can lead to natural abortion. All you have to do is soak some sesame seeds overnight and have it the next morning. Alternatively, you can also mix some sesame seeds with honey and consume it for a month to see the results.

Chamomile tea

Consuming high amount of chamomile tea helps in inducing abortion and therefore leads to miscarriage. All, you have to do is consume chamomile tea on a regular basis until you start bleeding. For this remedy, simply mix some chamomile tea into boiling water, let the tea steep into the water for few minutes,  strain the water and consume it.

Parsley

Parsley helps in stimulating uterine contractions which might need it to bleeding. This way parsley helps in ending the pregnancy naturally.

Other natural ways of aborting within a month

Hot water bath

For inducing abortion in a natural way you should take bath regularly using extremely hot water. Hot water bath combined with any of the herbal methods mentioned above can help in ending the pregnancy. Taking hot water bath affects the mucus membrane surrounding the vaginal area and initiates removal of the fetal.

Frequent sex

Involving yourself in a frequent intercourse during the early pregnancy stages is a known to be harmful to the fetus. The orgasms result in uterine contractions and at the same time, the prostaglandins present in semen will start inhibiting fetus growth.

Surgical abortion

In case the at-home abortion doesn’t prove to be effective, women need to undergo medical abortion procedure. The surgery takes place at the hospital where the entire lining of womb is taken out and it involves mainly two procedures: MVA (Manual Vacuum Abortion) and D & E (Dilation and Evacuation).

Both the procedures incorporate suction technique to empty the contents from womb. MVA is carried out in the initial phase i.e. Within 12 weeks of pregnancy while D&E is a preferred treatment for 13^th week of pregnancy and post that.

It is nor more than 10-15 minute procedure where the gynaecologist inserts a tube to open the cervix and empty the uterus by numbing the womb with a soothing drug. Using suction tube helps to empty the womb and, it’s all good.

Abortion by scraping

In this method the patient in given anesthesia and a sharp instrument curette is used which takes almost 10-15 minutes. In this procedure the cervix is stretched so that the curette can be inserted into the worm. This process of abortion can be done in the first month.

Symptoms post abortion that women commonly face

Some symptoms faced by the women during pregnancy are:

Itchy skin

Extensive itchiness and redness in your skin which includes your palm, feet or hands. It is common on your breast and belly because the area of your breast generally expands.

Fatigue

Fatigueness is yet another symptom of pregnancy because the body starts responding and supporting to your pregnancy. Your heart starts delivering extra oxygen to your uterus. For this, only plenty of water can keep you active.

Headaches

These happen when due to pregnancy your body tends to have increased level of progesterone and lack of fluid as well. In this situation the headaches are normal. It also occurs when you are anemic however headache becomes less common as the pregnancy proceeds.

Nausea

You will start experiencing nausea which is caused by hormone called human chorionic gonadotropin. The hormone progesterone will lead to slowing down of digestion process which will cause constipation and food aversions. In this period you will also start liking and disliking some foods.

Bleeding

Women experience excessive bleeding from the uterus after abortion. Prevention of pregnancy after a month might take a few weeks for the womb to recover and this shall result in bleeding and cramps among women. Incase there is non-stop bleeding with severe clogs, rush to emergency for immediate medical help.

Pain

Quite a common phenomenon amongst women post abortion. Cramps are very natural to occur because of the uterus lining removed from the womb completely. Doctors recommend pain killers to alleviate pain and using hot water bottle is also a great way to get rid of the pain.

Emotional dysfunction

This comes as no surprise as the women might go through a plethora of emotional roller coaster ride. Feeling guilty, grief-ridden, depressed and sad to kill the life fromtheir womb is not an easy feat. This will take time to settle.

Must do’s after abortion

Intake of plenty of fluids in your diet to reassure hydration and maintain a good body balance.

Healthy balanced diet including multi-vitamins, iron and proteins for the energy and required strength.

Don’t lift weights over and above 15 pounds for at least 2 weeks.

Take a few days work off.

No tub bats or swimming for at least 2 weeks.

Avoid excessive and coarse workout session for a week at least.

Apply for offs from your work to take rest at home.

Do not indulge in activities that will stretch and stress your vagina including sex, tampons an douches.

Avoid any physical intercourse until you’re recovered and feel emotionally and physically ready to take this further.

Medical method

These medicines must be used under the guidance of gynecologist. This method is a kind of abortion which is done through medications. The fetus is stopped from developing with the help of medicines. Mifepristone and Methotrexate are the most commonly used medicines for termination of pregnancy after 1 month. Mifepristone works together with the Progesterone and helps destroy the fetus. While Methotrexate is a toxic chemical which assaults the fetus cells and thus results in abortion. In either case, the Misoprostol is provided for carrying out the dead fetus. Below we have elaborated the procedure.

The process

• In this abortion procedure, visit your Gynecologist at least 3 times for completion of the process.
• The 1^st dose of medicine is mifepristone.
• After the 1^st dose you are supposed to meet the doctor again after few days for the 2^nd dose which is called misoprostol.
• This medicine results in contractions in the uterus and leaves it drained.
• The abortion process can lead to bleeding which may continue for about 2 weeks.
• Light bleeding and spotting may continue for several weeks.
• Visit your doctor again, the 3^rd time to be precise to learn whether the medicine worked properly to terminate one month pregnancy.

Warning

• If you are more than a month pregnant than do not opt for this procedure.
• If you are above 35 years old then do not opt for this method.
• If you are a chain smoker or if you smoke more than 10 cigarettes a day then do not opt for this method.

Saline water method

This process is another way of destroying the fetus. In this procedure, the salt water is injected into the womb. This leads to damage of the fetus by poisoning it with salt. It kills the fetus and goes for dehydration.

Prostaglandin method

This method is carried away by injecting certain hormones in the uterus which causes premature labor pain, resulting in the death of the fetus.

Chemical method

Here we are inserting the Zygote to the uterine wall as it helps prohibiting pregnancy. The remedy which is used in the amalgamation is used in the abortion. The widely accepted processes are Nuva Ring- Vaginal Ring and Ortho-Evra Birth control patch. These processes will operate upon the gonadotropins which manufactures the ovulation. The change in the lining of the uterus will prevent the implantation. The sperm is not allowed to get into the uterus by the cervical mucus and thus results in thinning of the uterus lining. This method should only be taken under consideration when no other methods are applicable or helpful enough to prevent the development during pregnancy.

Herbal abortion

In this process there are multiple unsafe and improper ways to stop the pregnancy. It is a difficult procedure and is very rare. Here the pregnancy is prevented by using some herbs. Yarrow which is scientifically known as achillea millefolium is an herbal flower which is used for miscarriage. A certain amount of dosage is given which when acts, leads to miscarriage. This isn’t a healthy method to be adopted for preventing pregnancy after a month. You should make up your mind to adjust to these situations properly before we go for these methods.

Taking pills

Pills are basically medicines which when consumed within or after a certain period of time helps prevent the development of the fetus. These pills can be consumed up to 63 days or 9 weeks after last menstruation period of a woman. These pills usually have a course of consumption, on completion of which the pregnancy is prevented. The pregnancy pill is really very much effective and has 98% positive outcome. You should be in regular touch with your doctor and on completion of the course consult your doctor so that your doctor can assure you whether the pills worked effectively or not. Some pills prescribed for prevention of the growth of the fetus may cause some serious damage if the pregnancy is continued. So before consuming any medication do consult your doctor about the pros and cons of the drug. When the pills are consumed, you may feel an allergic reaction, infection in the uterus and sometimes may cause clotting of blood in the uterus. It is recommended to consult your doctor before opting for this method.