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Having Casual Sex With People Dis-Empowers You : Makosi Musambasi



Makosi Musambasi, who starred in the 2005 series of Big Brother UK, joined Nana Adwoa Sarkodie for yet another inspirational Instagram Live session.

The one time famous TV star made an interesting comment about sex saying “Sex is very dis-empowering. The minute you just have casual sex with someone, it takes away your power. Let them see your naked soul before they see your naked body.”

Now a master life coach trained and certified in Dubai, Makosi, and Nana Adwoa discussed the topic “Overcoming Life’s Challenges”.

“Life itself is a challenge which we need to overcome. For me, surviving cancer is just a challenge as surviving diarrhea. When you’re driving somewhere and encounter a pothole, you don’t drive back to where you came from, you either drive through the pothole or drive around it” she said about her breast cancer ordeal in 2017.

Speaking about her transformation, Makosi simply attributed it to God’s gifts manifesting in different vessels, and the need to be driven by a purpose in life. “If you understand why you are here, your appetite changes and you can overcome every challenge. If you know you’re why then you won’t conform to the pressures of society” she stressed.

She further explained that an easy way of finding one’s purpose is by determining one’s passion. “Your passion is usually intertwined with your purpose. Your passion is what you’re willing to do even without payment.”

Makosi also talked about what she went through after being deported from the UK. The former nurse who hails from Zimbabwe had been living in the UK on a visa which allowed her to stay as long as she worked for the NHS. She used her career break to appear on Big Brother and this left her in a sticky situation leading to her curtailment.

“I felt a lot of shame, self-blame, regret, and had suicidal thoughts; but the only thing that kept me from killing myself was that I didn’t wanna give the newspapers a story about my death.”

“Challenges remind you that you’re not a big deal. When you know you’re not a big deal, that’s when you start to look for who is the big deal, and God is the big deal” she added.

The budding life coach emphasized how she’s able to focus on her goals. “I have a vision of what I want to be at 50 years so I have to work towards it and it involves turning down a lot of pleasures like clubbing, partying, and rather investing my time in reading, praying, and working. It’s a choice we all need to make.”

One remarkable comment she made was – “If you’re looking for easy, then you’re not looking for impact or influence.”

Finally, she dropped a great piece of advice to young ladies concerning marriage. “If anyone cannot withstand your fire, let them go. Ladies, you will find a man who will not be intimidated by your fire. Stay away from people who want to put out your fire.”

You can re-watch the entire interview on Instagram or Youtube via Nana Adwoa Sarkodie.

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Jullie Jay Replies Joyce Blessing By Cursing Her Entire Generation With Psalm 109



It seems Jullie Jay Kanz, the former publicist of Joyce Blessing is not sitting down to take any courses from Gospel musician, Joyce Blessing.

The artists’ manager, publicist, and blogger has hit back at Joyce Blessing a few hours after the gospel musician cursed her and her future generation.

In a post on her social media handle, Jullie Jay used the famous curse in the Holy Bible at Psalm 109 to reply to the singer’s curses.

Psalm 109 basically is a plea to God to fight false accusers and to drastically deal with the accuser and his/her entire future generation.

The chapter in the Bible is so deadly that even pastors are careful when using it to curse their enemies. But it appears Jullie Jay feels she has no option but to resort to it to fight her ‘false accusers’

In a simple message shared on her Facebook page, Jullie Jay wrote: Psalm 109. Well, you don’t need a seer to know who it is directed at.

Jullie Jay hits back at Joyce Blessing

Read the full chapter at Psalm 109 below

Plea for Judgment of False Accusers

To the Chief Musician. A Psalm of David.

1 Do not keep silent,
O God of my praise!
2 For the mouth of the wicked and the mouth of the deceitful
Have opened against me;
They have spoken against me with a lying tongue.
3 They have also surrounded me with words of hatred,
And fought against me without a cause.
4 In return for my love they are my accusers,
But I give myself to prayer.
5 Thus they have rewarded me evil for good,
And hatred for my love.
6 Set a wicked man over him,
And let an accuser stand at his right hand.
7 When he is judged, let him be found guilty,
And let his prayer become sin.
8 Let his days be few,
And let another take his office.
9 let his children be fatherless,
And his wife a widow.
10 Let his children 2continually be vagabonds, and beg;
Let them 3seek their bread also from their desolate places.
11 Let the creditor seize all that he has,
And let strangers plunder his labor.
12 Let there be none to extend mercy to him,
Nor let there be any to favor his fatherless children.
13 Let his 4posterity be cut off,
And in the generation following let their name be blotted out.
14 Let the iniquity of his fathers be remembered before the Lord,
And let not the sin of his mother be blotted out.
15 Let them be continually before the Lord,
That He may cut off the memory of them from the earth;
16 Because he did not remember to show mercy,
But persecuted the poor and needy man,
That he might even slay the broken in heart.
17 As he loved cursing, so let it come to him;
As he did not delight in blessing, so let it be far from him.
18 As he clothed himself with cursing as with his garment,
So let it renter his body like water,
And like oil into his bones.
19 Let it be to him like the garment which covers him,
And for a belt with which he girds himself continually.
20 Let this be the Lord’s reward to my accusers,
And to those who speak evil against my person.
21 But You, O God the Lord,
Deal with me for Your name’s sake;
Because Your mercy is good, deliver me.
22 For I am poor and needy,
And my heart is wounded within me.
23 I am gone like a shadow when it lengthens;
I am shaken off like a locust.
24 My knees are weak through fasting,
And my flesh is feeble from lack of fatness.
25 I also have become a reproach to them;
When they look at me, they shake their heads.
26 Help me, O Lord my God!
Oh, save me according to Your mercy,
27 That they may know that this is Your hand—
That You, Lord, have done it!
28 Let them curse, but You bless;
When they arise, let them be ashamed,
But let your servant rejoice.
29 Let my accusers be clothed with shame,
And let them cover themselves with their own disgrace as with a mantle.
30 I will greatly praise the Lord with my mouth;
Yes, aI will praise Him among the multitude.
31 For He shall stand at the right hand of the poor,
To save him from those 5who condemn him.

Jullie Jay Kanz was the publicist and road manager for Joyce Blessing. At a point in their relationship, she moved to stay with Joyce Blessing and her husband who also doubles as her manager.

But over the few months, their relation turned sour after Joyce Blessing sought a divorce from her husband, Dave Joy.

Right in the middle of their divorce has always been Jullie Jay. Sources claim she was dating Dave Jo secretly.

However, she came out to explain the musician was rather cheating with her gym instructor, and that caused the divorce.

Joyce Blessing has always maintained Jullie Jay and Dave Joy are sabotaging her. She even created a new online platform because she claims the two have hijacked her online platforms.

It’s in that regard Joyce Blessing on Tuesday 20th October sent audio to Jullie Jay cursing her and her future generation never to have peace as long as she is alive

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Tekashi 6ix9ine Sued For ‘Child Sexual Assault And Abuse’ Of A Minor Over 2015 Underage Sexual Video Case



Controversial American rapper, Tekashi 6ix9ine is being sued for ‘child sexual assault, child sexual abuse and infliction of emotional distress’ stemming from a 2015 underage video incident.

In 2015, the rapper pleaded guilty to the use of a child in a sexual performance in a video and was sentenced to four years probation in October 2018 after admitting to making the video featuring a 13-year-old girl in explicit situations.

According to TMZ, the alleged victim has filed a new lawsuit claiming that she was the girl in the video, Tekashi allegedly abused at a party in 2015 when she was just 13.

In legal docs, the woman, identified as Jane Doe claimed she was ‘under the influence of drugs and alcohol and was unable to consent as 6ix9ine and another adult, Tay Milly, made three sexually explicit videos which she says they later posted online.’

The documents also state ‘the first video featured Doe performing oral sex on Tay Milly while Tekashi did pelvic thrusts behind her — without engaging in sex — and he slapped her butt.’

In the third video which featured Doe sitting on Tekashi’s lap in a bra and underwear, she claimed she was ‘laying naked across their laps while Milly groped her.’

Tekashi’s lawyer, Lance Lazzaro, told TMZ the rapper will ‘defend the lawsuit vigorously’ once he is served. They also noted that the incident was nearly five years ago.

Jane Doe is suing 6ix9ine and Tay Milly for child sexual assault, child sexual abuse, and infliction of emotional distress.

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You Will Be The 1st President In Ghana I’ll Vote For : Ayisha Modi Tells Cheddar



Ayisha Modi, Stonebwoy’s unofficial PRO says the only person she would cast her vote for is no other person than Ghanaian business mogul and founder of Wonda World Estates, Nana Kwame Bediako.

Ayisha popularly known as She Loves Stonebwoy declared her support for Nana Bediako if he runs for the presidency.

According to Ayisha, Nana Kwame Bediako also known as Freedom Jacob Caesar will be the best president for Ghana.

She added that Freedom Jacob Caesar will be the first person she will cast her vote for.

“I swear with my life you will be the best president in Gh. You will be the 1st president I will vote for in my entire life. Am saving my vote for u”, Ayisha commented.

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Ayisha Modi made this statement after Freedom Jacob Caesar shared his view on the protest currently going in Nigeria by the youth to end police brutality.

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