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Why you must go back to your ex-wife

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Men leave marriages more than women. This is because for a man his greatest emotional need is what he achieves in his profession.

Many men see marriage as a pastime or social obligation because in Ghana every adult is expected to marry.

A man may therefore leave a marriage for any reason you can think about and irrespective of how badly her woman needs him.

About six years ago, a man left his wife because he did not put ‘koobi’ (salted fish) in his soup!

In many cases when a man leaves his wife, the issue may have nothing to do with the woman but the man himself. He may lose his self-esteem and think he is not man enough to marry.

For example if a man fails in his business or finds his wife making greater progress in life, he may lose his ego and feel he is not good enough to be husband.

He wants to free himself from stress and find space to rebuild his self-esteem. When he makes a deeper reflection or his situation improves he may regret his action and realise his wife is much better than he thought.

Today studies show over 90 per cent of partners who leave marriages regret and wished they had been patient and worked on their marriages.

Many men face the challenge of how to go back to their wives.

How to get back your wife

Give yourself space to get over your hurt, confusion and pain. You also need space to heal yourself. Think of the good times you shared and the sacrifices she has made for you.

Whatever you have achieved she has been the woman behind your success. It is, therefore, wrong to leave her when she needs you most.

Keep friendly contact with your ex-wife. On the quiet, find out if she is available and accessible. Apologise even if it was not your fault.

Let her know you still love and respect her. If you find it hard to apologise, just keep talking to her and being very friendly. You may also send gifts to her.

What is more, you can start visiting the children, monthly, weekly; Women have intuition and can tell if you really want her back.

It is better to try and fail than do nothing at all. It takes one committed partner to get back a marriage. Let it be you.

Why you must go back

The Akans say marriage is not like palm wine which you can taste and not buy. This means marriage is for life.

God makes no room for divorce and so must you. Even when you are remarried ‘the woman you now have is not your wife’ (John. 4:18).

Second marriages break down faster than first marriages because partners carry emotional pain into them.

Better the devil you know than the angel you don’t.

You will never find a perfect partner because angels do not marry. Your resolve to cope with your challenges will make a difference.

If you have children, appreciate that parenting is teamwork because both parents have unique roles in the holistic development of their children. Single parenting has harmful effects on children.

When they marry there is a 75 per cent chance they will also be victims of divorce.

Our mothers were wiser; when they faced challenges they will say ‘mmofra no nti’ or because of the children and stay on.

Never let your innocent children suffer for your actions and inactions.

As far as it is within your means, put the focus on yourself, avoid blame game, forgive unconditionally and go back to your ex-wife.

If you think of the good old times and develop a positive mental attitude about your ex, you will find she is good and worth your wife.

The Akans say it is easy to reignite a glowing firewood. When you go back, you have the opportunity to breathe renewed love into life.

Go for it.

(jydboakye01@gmail.com.) the writer is the director of Eudoo Counseling Center, West Legon. He is also the author of ‘Your Guide to Marriage, Love Unlimited and The Journey of Love

Mob. 0208181861

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Gov’t Sell Golden Tulip, Now Renamed Lancaster Hotel

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The Golden Tulip Hotels in Accra and Kumasi will be rebranded after the Ghanaian government sold its stake in the facility to some Lebanese investors.

The four-star hotels are owned by a joint venture between the governments of Ghana and Libya (GLAHCO), with Ghana owning 60% and Libya owning 40%.

According to media reports, Ghana has completely sold its franchise to a company called Lancaster.

This means that the renowned hotels in Ghana’s capital and the Ashanti Regional capital will be known as Lancaster Accra City Hotel and Lancaster Kumasi City Hotel as of July 1st, 2022.

A letter from the General Manager with the heads of departments in copy read: “Achour Holding Limited operating as Lancaster Hotels will be the new lessee and would take effect from 1st July, 2022, with same conditions as previously communicated”.

“We urge you to support the new company to ensure a successful takeoff,” the statement added.

Another letter from the Rooms Division Manager of Golden Tulip Hotel, Lucy Ahedor said “we wish to inform you that from 1st of July, 2022, the name of the hotel will now change to Lancaster Hotel. We would also like to inform you to rest assured as this change will not affect normal operations of the hotel”.

“We are happy to also announce that the hotel under this new name will be going through refurbishment by enhancing most of the facilities,” she added.


Some hotel employees confirmed the sale and name change to Joy News, while sources say the move was spearheaded by government officials.

The Golden Tulip Hospitality Group is a hotel franchise and management company with locations in Europe, the Middle East and Africa, Asia Pacific, and the Americas.

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Feli Nuna Hints On Collaboration With Sarkodie

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Feli Nuna, singer signed to Off Da Ground, has made a new revelation.

Speaking with Doreen Avio on Hitz FM’s Day Break Hitz she was questioned on when she will be having a collaboration with rapper Sarkodie.

A collaboration with the BET winner is in the works, according to the ‘Towel’ hitmaker, as she prepares for her EP. She went on to say that her EP, which is amazing and has some great features, should be out in six months.

Feli Nuna released her ‘Towel‘ song on May 11, 2022, which was produced by Shawerz Ebiem and filmed and directed by R.Dee.

Feli Nuna’s towel song is all about taking care of oneself. Self-care is defined as an individual’s, family’s, or community’s ability to promote health, prevent disease, and maintain health by eating well and engaging in stress-relieving activities.
Watch below.

Feli Nuna, real name Felicia Nuna Akosua Tawiah, has performed on major stages throughout Ghana, including the Ghana Music Awards Nominees Concert, the 4styte Music Video Awards, Coke Studio Africa, the Yaws Fashion Show in Gambia, the Asia-Africa Youth Festival in China, and many more.

Connect with Flei Nuna on these handles below.

Facebook: Feli Nuna

Twitter, Instagram & TikTok: @Feli Nuna

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Ciara Signs With Republic/Uptown Records

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Ciara is leveling up with a new record deal.

The R&B superstar has signed to Republic Records and Uptown Records in partnership with her independent label, Beauty Marks Entertainment, it was announced today.

“I am thrilled to partner with Uptown/Republic Records through my own label imprint Beauty Marks Entertainment,” said Ciara. “Wendy [Goldstein] and I have been in discussion to work together for some time and the enthusiasm that her and the entire team have expressed over this new project marks an exciting new chapter in my career. I am grateful to be able to continue my mission of making the world dance with a team I admire, who are at the forefront of empowering artists.”

Republic Records Co-President Wendy Goldstein added, “I’ve been a fan of Ciara forever. Working with her has been a dream, and she’s making some of the most powerful, undeniable, and innovative music of her entire career now. This is an incredible creative chapter for her, and we’re all excited to be part of it.”

Her first single in two years, “Jump” featuring Coast Contra, will be released to streaming services on July 8. A video has also been shot directed by Dave Meyers (“Lose Control”). She recently teased the dance track in a viral dance clip.

Ciara is now readying her first album in three years for release on Republic/Uptown. “I’m actually finished with my album, which I’m excited about,” she told The Associated Press last month.

Her previous album, 2019’s Beauty Marks, was released independently via her Beauty Marks label, and featured appearances from Kelly Rowland and Macklemore.

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