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Why You Need Money To Show Love

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Well, many people believe without money, love is just an empty piece of a word without value, and this is true.
We hold the same view and renowned counselor, Counsellor Adofoli also shares the same opinion. In his recent social media post, he outlined why you need money to show love and he wrote;

“YOU NEED MONEY TO SHOW LOVE
Is the title for Today’s Motivational Message

Written by Counselor Adofoli
As much as dating someone does not mean he or she is your spouse or married to you, so is it that you are also not responsible for their upkeep. You need to understand that when you love someone, you naturally have the desire to care for them and caring for them requires money in this modern world.

We care for what we love. And there are various ways of caring for someone or showing love, however a lot of times you need money to be able to do that. The reason why you work is that you want to earn money to take care of you. If you don’t love yourself you won’t care for you. You can’t love yourself and won’t take care of yourself. Same way you can’t love someone and won’t care for them.

For example, you bath always because you love your body, you want to keep it clean and safe. Because of that, money becomes a means or a tool that you use to get the things you need to take care of your body. Love for your body will compel you to look for money to buy soap to bath (to keep the body clean).
Most parents take up two or three jobs just to raise money to take care of the needs of their children. Some go to the extent of selling their properties and belongings just to take care of their wards. They do that because of the love they have for their children.

One of the indicators or signs that someone does not love you is when they care less about you. A family which doesn’t care about you does not love you. A friend who doesn’t care about you doesn’t love you, a partner who doesn’t care about you doesn’t love you.

Another sign that someone loves you is when they are happy helping you. If a partner is helping you but they are not happy helping you and rather complaining or feeling bad, it’s a clear sign such a person doesn’t love you.
When someone loves you, they care about your happiness, they are happy to see you happy. When you are not happy, they are also affected. That’s why the one who loves you can’t stand to see you hurt. The one who loves you won’t hurt you intentionally, because hurting you is equal to hurting themselves.

For those dating, you don’t need to demand money or things from your partner or push your responsibility on them or tax them for your upkeep. If he or she cares about you, they do their best to find out your needs, and take steps to help you.

In love, we don’t make demands, there is nothing wrong asking for help from a friend or a partner. If he or she has what it takes to help, but refuses to help you, it clearly shows you are not loved. But if he or she does not have what it takes to help you, it does not mean they don’t love you.

And when we meet people who care about us, who go out of their way to meet our needs, it’s very wrong to take advantage of them. Taking advantage of someone who cares for you is equal to abusing someone who loves you. They will one day stop caring for you.

In conclusion, “Love is kind and patient, never jealous, boastful, proud.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4 (CEV).”

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Ghana Ranks 3rd As The Country With The Most Beautiful Ladies : See The Full List

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African women possess magnificent beauty which commands respect for them wherever they find themselves. Undeniably, the beauty possessed by African women surpasses that of the women in the western world.

We are always torn between different worlds arguing on which country has the most beautiful women on the continent. Well, today we will find out in this article the country with the most beautiful women in Africa.

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4 Subtle Ways To Break Up With Your Partner

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Dating and relationships take a toll on young people these days and many people are of the view that dating is a waste of time. We are looking at some nice ways you can call it off with your partner without any bad blood between the two of you.

Stop communicating with your partner: to break loose of a toxic relationship, you need to deliberately create an avenue where you reduce the number of times you communicate with your partner. Relationships thrive on communication so the absence of communication means it won’t work.

2. Stop being there at all times: If you are always there for your partner to lay their heads on your shoulders, they assume you are always around for their hard times. Distancing yourself will make your partner to read the signs and back- off from the relationship.

3. Be stingy: if you stop doing the things you used to do for your partner like providing financial assistance for your partner, they will start getting angry at you at every least mistake and can lead to the breakup of the relationship. If your partner depends on you for everything and you stop helping out, they will leave the relationship.

4. Start spending less time and be superstitious: it puts a lot of partners off when excuses are always made to spend some time together. If you start becoming suspicious and superstitious, nobody wants to be in a relationship with a superstitious person so they will gentle exit the relationship.

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Sex Survey Reveals The Best Pen*s Size To Make A Woman Orgasm

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A recent survey carried out by Big One Dating showed that women can be more likely to orgasm depending on the size of their male partner’s sexual organ.

The company asked 4,761 ladies about the last time they had sex, before noting down how well-endowed their lover is. They then asked if participants climaxed or not, before collating the data to find out which sizes were most likely to induce an orgasm.

The poll found that eight inch penises were the most pleasurable, sparking orgasms in 44% of cases.

Seven and nine inch penises were also deemed to be more “successful” as they triggered climaxes in 38% and 32% of cases respectively.

More than a third of women reported pleasurable romps with manhood’s sized between four inches and six inches. This is the same success rate as men with 11 inch penises, which shows bigger isn’t always better.

The least sexually satisfying penis length was one inch.

Sex survey reveals best pen*s size to make a woman orgasm

Last year, the NHS released information about the average male penis size in the UK.

Researchers at University College London measured the penises of 104 men, according to Daily Star.

They included males of all ages, from teenagers to pensioners.

The average penis length in this group was 5.1in (13cm) when “soft and gently stretched”, the research said. They also noted that some penises are “growers” while others were more immediate “showers”.

The NHS website adds: “Regardless of actual size, many men are still unhappy with the size of their manhood.

“A study based on the results of an internet-based survey of more than 50,000 men and women revealed that 45% of men would like a larger penis. The report by Professor Kevan Wylie, a consultant in sexual medicine at the University of Sheffield, concluded that excessive concerns about penis size were higher among men with average-sized penises than men with small ones.

“Professor Wylie’s report also found differences between what women and men think. A much higher percentage of women (85%) were satisfied with their partner’s penis size than the percentage of men (55%) who were satisfied with their own penis size.”

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